If you threaten my family by any means, know that you are dead to me and have no way of winning me back. I don’t care if it wasn’t mentioned directly to me, but if I see with my own eyes that you did threaten us, there is no going back.
This might’ve not been the right thing to do but I read some of my sisters text messages because I was curious to what the Evil Monkey was saying to her after the incident.
Here’s the incident. Both my niece and nephew were playing with their toys near each other. There is a slight difference in age, not sure if that matters in this situation, but my nephew is one year and four months while my niece is seven months old. My nephew likes to play rough and throw things all over the place so what he is going to do next is always unpredictable. In this specific situation he started swinging a toy and it accidentally hit my niece.
Her father, known as the Evil Monkey, went ballistic! She didn’t even start crying right away, but he picked her up and got away from us so fast that he made it seem like we were diseased or something. He started pointing fingers and saying that it was all my fault, as if I knew what my nephew was going to do and could have prevented it. Give me a break! In the process of behaving like a complete lunatic, he made my nephew cry because he scared him. I grabbed a hold of him and tried to calm him down, but it was no use.
After running away and causing a scene, the Evil Monkey apparently called my sister to talk shit about us. This is what I heard from my other sister, who was standing next to her when the call came in. Apparently I was the cause of everything and I laughed while it was happening. When I heard that he said I was laughing, that threw me over the edge and pissed me off. I would NEVER laugh at the sight of my little kiddos getting hurt. If anything it hurts ME more to see them crying and in pain.
It was an innocent bump to her head. There was no need for him to rush her to the emergency room. I think he was just being over dramatic. I don’t think he understands that there is going to be bumps and bruises as she grows up and he is not going to be able to prevent them all. I get that you want to protect your daughter, but you don’t have to make us seem like the bad guys just to make your story plausible because maybe if you weren’t so addicted to your phone then maybe you would see that your daughter was in “danger”.. that’s how he put it.
So after “accidentally” reading her text messages, I found out that he considers us to be shitty, careless people. He doesn’t truly trust us, doesn’t want us around their daughter and he told my sister we would pay, as in he would get back at us.
Yup. There is no coming back from that. They don’t know that I know this so he is acting as if nothing ever happened or that he ever said anything, but I see right through him. I knew he never actually liked us, but that’s okay because I never really liked him either.
Ever since all this happened about a week ago or so, he has not let us hold their daughter or play with her unless he was around. That is not fair to us. I just think that he could have handled things differently, but instead he wanted to act childish and overreact. He is only making things worse for himself, though, because we are seeing his real self.
Oh, and another thing too. You can talk shit to me, tell me whatever the hell you want, but don’t you even dare say anything to my mother. You are not allowed to demean her or tell her off. If you must, say it to me because I can go ahead and say things back. It makes me so angry that the Evil Monkey said and did something to my mom. My mom won’t tell us exactly what he did, but just the thought of him even coming near my mom or telling her something awful angers the hell out of me.
I’m not playing nice anymore. I am no longer going to have a smile on my face when he is around for the sake of others. I am definitely not going to tolerate any of his nonsense anymore. The Evil Monkey is nobody to me. I’m done with him. He can go bye bye.